Understanding women's sexual politics is essential for winning at the dating game -- for if you don't see how women use sex to make their plays in the dating world, you'll end up losing.
Dating really is like a game, even if your goal is a serious relationship.
Yet you don't play against women or other men -- really, you play against yourself!
So you either get what you want -- or you don't.
In other words, you either get the kind of woman and relationship you want, or you don't.
That's why you must understand that sex is a woman's power piece.
When you grasp how women use sex, it allows you to play much more effectively. For without understanding how women use their power piece -- sexual politics -- it can become difficult to get what you want.
Just what does all this mean to you? What are these sexual politics?
The Truth about Women’s Sexual Politics
Have you ever noticed that women give some men sex quickly, while they withhold it from others for a long period of time?
Why?
And what is it that makes this difference?
The secret is found in realizing how women use sex to make their plays with men in the dating game -- as their aim is, of course, either getting or keeping a guy around.
For that's where the answer to women's sexual politics lies...
Women either use the 'promise' of sex to keep a guy around, which is also known as being 'whipped' -- or by giving sex as a reward for him conforming to her rules and agendas.
Or they use sex itself to catch a guy who has other options, and sometimes to keep him or stop him from leaving or moving on.
So first, they determine what kind of guy they have on the other end. Then second, based on the type of guy, they choose the best approach to use...
... which is whether to give sex quickly -- or withhold it.
Let's take a closer look at...
How Women Use Sex to Get What they Want
A woman will first determine if you're a provider type or a lover type. And her making this distinction allows her to determine which approach to use, also setting the direction or dynamic the relationship will take.
Because provider type guys tend to stick with a woman regardless of whether they're getting sex or not, they stay with her even when their needs aren't being fulfilled in the relationship.
And if their needs aren't being fulfilled, neither are hers.
So she withholds sex -- while gaining the benefits of having a guy wait on her.
But on the other hand, because lover type guys understand that if their needs aren't being fulfilled, the relationship is going to be poor since a woman's needs won't be either, so they don't stick around -- drawing things out while placing themselves in a position to be manipulated.
Of course, it is this understanding that allows them to get what they want for they focus on fulfilling a woman's need for drama.
For then a woman will naturally want to give him sex, which allows him to take women's games out of the equation. Because she plays her power piece early in the relationship, she no longer has the power to manipulate. This gives you the control to lead the relationship.
Now, in the first case, a woman has the power. But in the second case, you have the power.
This is the dynamic of sexual politics.
To win at the dating game, you want to take the second approach for it allows you get exactly the woman and relationship you want -- on your terms.
And assuming you're not a game-player yourself, this benefits both of you since feminine or quality women want a man who's a strong leader...
... and that's what you'll have just demonstrated.
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